Advise Needed On The "How To's"

So .......... Here's the deal,

On the first of every month, I need to hand in an invoice for our company so that we can get paid.  He has asked me to add the entries to this invoice every time get called to work, so that at the end of every month, all I have to do is hit print.  Straight forward enough, but since there are never any consequences, this continues to be an on going problem.

Last month we switched to a computer program to creat the work orders.  The computer ate one of the work orders.  It just wont let me into it.  So I just kept putting it off, and putting it off, thinking that I had lots of time to get the information again and create a new work order.  No problem. 

Big problem.

We got busy, life got busy, so it took me untill the 5th to even create the invoice, and then when I phoned the person to get the work info, I had to leave a message because they didn't answer their phone.  They still haven't phoned me, and I still haven't finished the invoice because again, when I could have phoned the head office and gotten the missing information, I put it off, and forgot about it.

Now I know that a lot of the HOH's would spank for this, but when hubby came and asked me if I had finished the invoice, I made an excuse about having to wait on this person to phone me, and said that I would call the head office on Monday morning.  He said OK, and left it at that.  Now remember, he's new to this.  So he doens't even think of spanking, it just doesn't occur to him.

So ........... should I say anything??

My gut tells me yes, my bottom yells a resounding NO, and would he think this is pestering him if I bring him this situation and tell him that this is most certainly something that most HOH's would spank for.  I mean I can put in the invoice on Monday, and we will probably get paid on time, so no big problem there, but there is a chance that we might not and this would create HUGE problems if payment was delaid for any reason.

Well he's taking a nap right now, says he feels bloated, so I'll have to wait untill he gets up to see how he's feeling.  I could say nothing, and just put in the invoice tomorrow, and everything will probably be just fine.  But isn't that beig dishonest with both of us?

So, how many of you guys confess things to your HOH's?
How do you bring them to your HOH's?
How do you determin what you can blow off as no big deal, and what to tell them is a big deal that they should be fixing, and how do you say that in a way that still makes it their decision.
I don't want a HOH that treats me like a child, but how do I motivate him to be just a little more strict?

Well thanks in advance for your great advise,
and thanks for stopping by.

I NEVER Thought It Would Happen !!

WOW, it's been a while!!

Now let me see, how many times since I last wrote to you have I been spanked or had a maintenance spanking ........... hmmmm,

Oh...  I know, I know the answer ...... never.

Well, at least not untill last night  ;)

I've tried and tried to bring up the subject of maintenance, but it was never the right time.  He says,

it's too late at night

I'm too tired

it's too early in the day

I'm stiff and score (meaning his back)

Ugggg, I was getting no were fast.

So if you looked into our bedroom, the head of our bed is against the far wall, in the middle, so you can walk around the bed on all three sides.  I needed to get changed, so I quietly made the bed, put the foot stool on it, and put a blanket over the foot stool.  On top of the blanket, I put the paddle.  Now I know what your probably thinking,  WHY??  Are you NUTS?? 

You don't even get maintenance and for some reason, you've suddenly lost your mind.  Well, not really.  You see, if I don't get maintenance, he doesn't get used to ever spanking for anything.  If he doesn't get used to it, he wont ever inforce any rules, if he doesn't enforce any rules, WHAT'S THE POINT???

He came into the room just as I was putting on my coat, saw this (how could he miss it) smiled and went down stairs.  When I came down stairs to get my keys, I asked him what he thought about it, and he said that he was a little put off that the last time he set the bed up for maintenance, I snapped at him, told him it wasn't going to happen, and he got angry and shut down. 

Sometimes I wonder if he really hears how he says things to me.  At the time, he chuckled nervously, motioned toward the door, and asked me if I wanted to go "you know". 

I thought "you know"??  He isn't serious, this can't be what he thinks this is all about.  I thought this was his way of saying he wanted sex, so why don't we play your little game first.  Apperently I totally miss read him. 

He still kind of motioned toward the door, and said "well ....... shall we?"  Not exactly what you expect from an HOH, but I'll take it for now, as long as I know he's serious about it.  I'd like him to be a little more manly and definate about it. 

TELL me, don't ASK me.

If it's a choice, what do you think I'll choose every time.  So now it will be twice a week.  I'll set up the bed, he finally told me he prefers it that way.  No exceptions, no excuses.  Unless one of us is sick.

It went well too, by the way.  I'm sure he'll get better at it, and then I'll probably regreat it.  Well, not really, at least I'll have a real HOH in the end.

Well, thanks for stopping by, see you next time.